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Many people begin taking drugs casually to have a fun night with friends. Then after a while, we find that we need drugs to relax and enjoy ourselves and it gradually becomes every night and then during the day too. What started as just a bit of fun can often become something that begins to control us. If this is something you are struggling with then you are not alone – many people struggle with this, men, women, young, old, married, unmarried, those who believe in a God and those who don’t. Drugs have a power of their own which we need to wrestle back off of them.
It would be great to chat with you about things that will help you to beat this drug addiction.
We are all more than just a physical body, we also have feelings, emotions and a spiritual side to us. We really need to think about how to help the whole of us and not just our physical bodies. Here are some suggestions people have found helpful…
Why do you take drugs?
It is good to think about why we do it and why we want to stop doing it. What is it that you feel you are missing that drives you to drugs and the desire for a high, is there something you are trying to mask or cover up, something you are trying to run from or forget? Also you need to be clear about why you want to stop – what is motivating you to want to break free? Motivation is important in breaking free from any addiction – why do you want to be free? Are you just trying to stop for you? For someone else? For God? The stronger our motivation, and the more it isn’t just about us the greater the power it has.
How? Where? When?
Think about how you most often purchase the drugs – is it at a bar, at a friends house, in the street? Do you plan to buy it, or just see it and buy it?
Think about where and when? Is it normally at night when you are alone or when you are with a certain group of friends? Is it during the day when nobody is watching?
Once we have noticed the times and places we find it hard to say no to the temptation to take drugs we can begin to think about avoiding these places, or making sure we are not alone at these times – if we are with someone who knows we want to stop taking drugs then they can be an added outside influence to keep us from buying or using at those times when we have noticed we are weakest.
Sometimes we find it particularly hard to break out of a pattern of taking drugs together with friends – every time you meet up you get high together, and it’s so hard not to when they are still happy to carry on. If you are really serious about stopping you will need to explain this to your friends and even ask for their help – if they laugh and mock you and won’t join in the battle with you then you need to think of some different people to spend time with. A church could be a good place to find new friends with a different aim in life – one where drugs isn’t the only way.
Think about the spiritual you
Do you believe there is a God? Have you ever spent time trying to learn about who Jesus is, what he did and why he did it?
When people believe that Jesus loves them and is interested in them it gives them a bigger picture of the world around them and of what life is all about. It can give you a new hope and a new focus outside of yourself. The more you get to know Jesus the more you will want to please Him and that will also become a great motivation to saying no to this temptation – Find out about Jesus.
Give yourself a new focus
Find something new to fill your free time, spend time with other people, start a new hobby, keep yourself busy, volunteer at something. Find new, rewarding things to do and people to make a difference to – the more the focus is away from you and onto others or God the better.
Set yourself small step goals – 24 hrs alcohol free, 48hrs, 3 days, 1 week. Then keep something that you enjoy to do, read or eat and when you reach these targets give yourself the reward! Positive motivation is so important in wining battles.